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Vol 19 No 5
June
2008

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The official gazette of the Diocese of Port Elizabeth:
Anglican Church of Southern Africa

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 •  Thokomala Foster Home
 •  Communicate with love
 •  A braai and a cruise
 •  How can I keep from singing?


Thokomala Foster Home
[ Robin Paterson ]

At the beginning of this year a sixth child arrived at the Thokomala Foster Home in Marselle township near Bushmans River Mouth. The wonderful house mother, Florence Mbanzi, and the other five children welcomed her as the final member of their family.

The home is built on a portion of land given to the Anglican church about 20 years ago when Marselle was laid out. The Alexandria Parish found enough money to build a new church, St Matthew's, on a section of the land and this operates successfully as a chapelry of the parish.

When the then Metropolitan, Njongonkulu Ndungane, began campaigning for every parish to do something for AIDS orphans, the idea of building a 'safe house' on the property emerged. A ceremony (with incense and all) was held to dedicate the land for such a purpose.

A committee was formed to build the house when the Life Skills Support Group found a two-year old AIDS orphan -who was then put into foster care in the usual way.

The committee wrote to the Archbishop's Fund asking for R350 000 but was turned down as there were too many appeals. Two days later the Kenton/Bushmans Child Welfare Area Manager phoned Robin Paterson to say that an organisation called Thokomala Orphan Care had offered Child Welfare R350 000 to build a foster home for six children, preferably AIDS orphans, but not necessarily so, and asked if we would like to take this on as a project. We accepted gladly and it all began to happen.

Thokomala is a big organisation which collects funds internationally and aims to erect hundreds of these homes (not orphanages) for AIDS orphans in South Africa. The funds for our home come from Sweden. They pay for the building and some equipment and then pay the running costs and the salary of a social worker for five years. The home runs under the aegis of Child Welfare. Thokomala insists on owning the land on which each building stands and so the Alexandria Parish legally ceded the remainder of the land to them. There is space for another home should another miracle occur!

Generous donations of furniture, bedding, kitchen equipment etc. came from the local white community, and the Department of Social Development also made a contribution when they were impressed by the joyful opening ceremony.

Picture: House mother Florence Mbanzi and her six children.


Communicate with love
[ St Matthew's reporter ]

Family Day celebrations on 24 March were fun and games at St Matthew's, KwaMagxaki, where even the 'mothers' were persuaded that playing soccer was good for one.

The day began with a service in the church, then everyone went outside to join in the fun with games for the adults and young folk, a jumping castle and other attractions for the little ones and stalls selling food and other goods for everyone. 

At the end of the fun everyone returned to the church where Linda Ncaca gave a very challenging message on Communicate with love 'Communicating with love'. She first looked at the different make-up of families and reminded everyone that out of a family situation Christianity was born.

Pictures: Fun for the children as well as the adults on Family Day at St Matthew’s, KwaMagxaki.

She said, "The foundation of a family is love - for a child to develop physically, spiritually, emotionally and intellectually, love is a requirement." She spoke about the bonding between mother and baby straight after birth and through the early years in order to develop that baby into a responsible family-loving person. She said there was a big need for two-way communication between child and parent, and that parents need to create ways to communicate in love with their children in order to narrow the generation gap. Linda said, "Some of the ways are to have meals together, honouring certain days - such as Christmas Day, Mother's/Father's Day - by spending the day together as a family." Saying it is very important to make quality time together as a family, she told the story of the minister's family who, in desperation, wrote their names in the gaps in their father's  appointment book in order to force him to give them some of his attention.


A braai and a cruise
A Eucharist, a braai and a cruise on the Swartkops River on a beautiful Sunday, weather-wise, were what the members of St Paul's, Parsons Hill, and Zwartkops River Valley parishes enjoyed on 27 April.

St Nicholas Church was full for the service, and amid much bantering between the two rectors as to who had "ordered the better than last year's rainy" weather, everyone moved to the Redhouse club alongside the Swartkops river for the picnic braai afterwards. Rod Lochhead took two groups of the parishioners for trips up the river on his boat 'Stampede' - much appreciated by the townies who enjoyed the quietness of the river. A group of the men took on the task of braaing all the meat while the young folk buttered rolls and the women contributed a wonderful array of delicious salads. 


How can I keep from singing?
The participants at an RSCM workshop, recently held at the Church of Christ the King, Gelvandale, found that this was quite impossible, especially after exploring some of the delightful melodies that are to be found in the RSCM publication of the same name, as well as in the book, 'Voice for Life'.

The workshop was led by our chairman, Jenny Yates, who, in her own inimitable way, opened up a treasure trove of music, verse and other readings that are to be found in these books. This was a follow-up to last year's presentation by Leah Peronah-Wright, one of the compilers in the U.K. Although the turn-out was disappointingly small, Jenny soon had us singing these musical gems with great enthusiasm. Some folk were called upon to do the readings and impressed us all with their excellent sight-reading. It was greatly encouraging to have a good representation of the 'younger set' with us, and, by all accounts, they found the music rather 'cool'!

Although the purchase of the 'Voice for Life' and 'How can I Keep from Singing?' is initially rather expensive, it ultimately more than pays for itself because the purchaser is given full permission to photo-copy most of the contents, thereby avoiding copyright transgressions. 

For more details, contact Jenny: 041 373 3311. 

Picture: In front are Loyce Aisu and Aduma Tshungu (Holy Trinity) and Chevon Munnik (St Luke’s), behind them are Anne Muller, Connie Jacobs, OslynneHolland and Faith Hoggens (St Luke’s).


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